The Kindest Way to Control a Horse

The Kindest Way to Control a Horse

The Kindest Way to Control a HorseStormy May
Published on: 04/09/2026

What if the most subtle form of control is the kindest-looking one? Exploring the “wolf in sheep’s clothing” in modern horsemanship—and what changes when we stop asking how to better accomplish our goals and start questioning whose goals they are.

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Gentle Isn't The Same As Free

Gentle Isn't The Same As Free

Gentle Isn't The Same As FreeStormy May
Published on: 03/09/2026

Is "positive reinforcement" the ethical endpoint of horse training, or just a kinder-looking form of control? A hard look at consent, leverage, and what it really means for a captive animal to say yes.

What If Your Horse Doesn't Need to Trust You Yet?

What If Your Horse Doesn't Need to Trust You Yet?

What If Your Horse Doesn't Need to Trust You Yet?Stormy May
Published on: 27/08/2026

Trust isn't something we can demand from a horse. It develops through patience, consistency, respect for boundaries, and giving the horse time to decide that we are safe.

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What If "Respect" Is Sometimes Just Fear With Better Marketing?

What If "Respect" Is Sometimes Just Fear With Better Marketing?

What If "Respect" Is Sometimes Just Fear With Better Marketing?Stormy May
Published on: 25/08/2026

This article questions whether “respect” from a horse is really respect at all, exploring the difference between trust, obedience, fear, and healthy boundaries in our relationships with horses.

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